Consider Proposing at a Spa
Proposing to your loved one is not something you get to do everyday. It is a very special moment, and should be treated as such. In order to make the moment magical, many people will do something that means a lot to their partner, like proposing on the beach, at your house with friends and family, on a destination vacation, or at a private dinner between you two at your home. There are many different options available, but if you want to do something truly unique and different from other proposal ideas, consider having your proposal at a spa. Continue reading to learn more about the history of marriage proposals, the benefits of proposing at a spa, and ZZ Day Spa’s one-of-a-kind proposal package.
The history of wedding proposals
Getting on your knee and proposing to your partner has become a long-held tradition associated with popping the question. Yet, for all of those who take part in this ritual, many of them probably do not know where it comes from or why people do it. The tradition traces back to the time of medieval knights bowing before noblewomen as a sign of respect. Over time, the tradition of kneeling on one knee to propose marriage began. This tradition was reminiscent of knights from the Middle Ages who kneeled to swear allegiance and protection to the woman he wanted to love and marry.
Before this, according to ModernGents, Ancient Greece had other traditions, such as the practice of male suitors tossing apples to a woman whom they wanted to marry. This custom dates back to the Goddess of Chaos, Eris. According to legend, when Peleus and Thetis got married, Eris threw a golden apple at their wedding guests, with a note written on the apple saying it was intended for the most beautiful person in the room. In ancient Rome, marriage was a partnership between families. Its primary purpose was to produce heirs to inherit familial qualities, status and property.
Proposals were actually seen more as business arrangements between family representatives from ancient Egypt through the Middle Ages and the Renaissance; romance was not a big factor. However, by the 19th century (especially in America), more couples began to marry each other out of love and friendship instead of for their family name. This is because people began to recognize the value of individuality and personal happiness, although this mostly occurred in nations that were industrialized. Eventually, love and emotion became a big reason for a couple to marry.
During this period of wedding proposals and marriage, when a man wanted to marry a woman, he would first go to her father as a sign of respect and ask for her hand in marriage. The father could refuse if he thought the man was unsuitable for his daughter, or he could agree if he found the man to be worthy of his daughter and family. Today, some men still like to respect this tradition out of respect. Proposals were also far more casual. While there are still casual proposals done today, this was the common way to propose–someone may propose on the couch while watching TV. For the majority, this is far different from proposals today in which, with the rise of social media, wedding proposals have largely become an elaborate spectacle to show to others. Some people even joke that if you do not post about it online, then did it even happen?
The benefits of proposing to your partner at a spa
Receiving spa treatments as part of your proposal offers many long term benefits. Whether you are receiving a massage, getting a facial, dipping in a hot tub, relaxing in a sauna, or getting a mani and pedi treatment, each experience is sure to leave you feeling refreshed and closer to your partner. Let us explore the different types of treatments below and how they will positively impact you and your loved one.
1. Massages:
Swedish Massage: This massage refers to a sequence of long, gliding strokes, kneads, and circular motions to help ease shallow tension in the muscles. A classic Swedish massage is excellent for general relaxation, relieving muscle tension, and boosting overall circulation throughout the body.
Deep Tissue Massage: A deep tissue massage is a slower, more specific form of massage focused on muscle knots in the deeper layers of muscle and connective tissue. Using deliberate, slow strokes or friction across the grain of the muscle, the therapist can address chronic tight or painful muscles, repetitive strain, postural problems, or injuries. A deep tissue massage is best used for acute and chronic muscle tension patterns caused by overuse or prior injury. While the pressure is generally more intense, you can simply let your massage therapist know right away if you would like to reduce pressure to meet your preferences.
Hot Stone Massage: The Hot Stone Massage is a specialty massage in which the therapist uses smooth, heated stones as a tool for treatment. The massage therapist places warm, smooth stones on specific points on the body and also holds the stones while giving the massage. Heat has been shown to relax tight muscles, so the hot stones allow the therapist to relieve areas of muscle tension. In addition to relaxing you, these massages have a vasodilating effect, which is the expansion of blood vessels, which promotes better blood flow and circulation through the body. They not only provide somatic benefits to the body, but help to purify it, both physically and mentally. Sweating is one of the body's most natural ways of eliminating toxins. A hot stone massage induces mild sweating which can help flush out toxins from the body, leaving you feeling refreshed and revitalized.
Aromatherapy Massage: An aromatherapy massage is a Swedish massage with scented plant oils added to the massage oil. Extracted from flowers and other plant parts, essential oils offer a pleasing scent, and are believed to have healing properties. Lavender, for instance, has been found to promote relaxation. Although different essential oils may be selected to address specific needs, the therapist typically uses pre-blended oils to relax, energize, or uplift.
2. Facials: Facials are designed to address certain skin issues, promote the overall health of your skin, clean your face, keep your skin looking young, rejuvenate and hydrate your face, and help you relax and feel calm.
European Facial: It is highly customizable and deeply cleanses the face, unclogs pores, evens out the skin tone, and gives you a more radiant complexion. This facial includes the steaming of the face, exfoliation, extractions, massaging, a mask, and the application of serums and moisturizers. As a result, European Facials unclog and shrink the size of pores, improve blood circulation, increase skin cell turnover, slow the aging process, even the skin tone, relieve face tension, and make you feel relaxed.
Hydrafacial: This treatment exfoliates, hydrates, improves skin texture and tone, and reduces acne and skin imperfections for a brighter, smoother complexion. A hydrafacial treatment involves using hydrating serums and moisturizing agents that penetrate deep into the skin, providing much-needed hydration and leaving the skin looking plump and radiant. This deep hydration is particularly beneficial for those with dehydrated skin. Hydrafacial treatment can also help improve skin tone and texture. Infusing antioxidants and vitamins during the treatment helps brighten the skin and reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. It also offers the benefit of increased circulation. The gentle massaging of the hydrafacial wand promotes circulation, which in turn helps deliver essential nutrients to the skin. Improved circulation can also help reduce inflammation and promote a healthy, glowing complexion, making it an ideal treatment for combating the effects of cold winter.
3. Mani and Pedi Treatments: The experience is great for improving your overall self-confidence and emotional well-being. When you receive a mani and pedi treatment, you feel better about your body and appearance, which will improve your overall quality of life. The treatment is also great for creating good first impressions. When you shake someone’s hand for the first time, one of the first things they notice is the appearance of your nails. If they do not look good, this leaves them with a bad first impression. When you take care of yourself, people notice this.
The pedi treatment helps to stop ingrown toenails, which can be very painful if it is left untreated. Nail technicians are trained on how to properly trim your nails so that they grow out properly. In addition, the mani and pedi treatment can get rid of hangnails. If you try to remove them yourself, this could potentially cause an infection. Nail technicians also know how to clip them off, and afterwards they moisturize your hands and feet to lessen your chances of getting hangnails again. They also get you to stop biting your nails if you have this unhealthy habit. When you take care of your nails, you might think again before chewing on them as you do not want to get rid of the new, fresh look.
The treatment also helps with mobility and foot issues. If you suffer from circulatory, bone or joint issues, then a hand and foot massage will improve your blood flow and help ease any pain you have, thus improving mobility. If you are on your feet all day or are very athletic, your feet might have corns and calluses. A monthly pedicure treatment keeps these issues under control and also helps with fungus infections. As a result of treating them, you will feel less discomfort, relaxed, happy, and more comfortable.
During a manicure and pedicure, your nails, hands, and feet will be cleaned, shaped, and polished by a trained technician using specialized tools and products. You may also receive a hand/foot massage, moisturizing treatment, or other add-ons, depending on the type of service you choose.
4. Hot tubs: Extending your massage or facial treatment to include a hot tub is a wonderful idea, as there are many benefits to soaking in the warm water. Hot tubs can relieve stress, relax your muscles, improve sleep, reduce pain in muscles, joints, and tendons, can help ease stiffness of your muscles, and enhance cardiovascular health by raising your heart rate and lowering your blood pressure. However, it is important to note that those who are pregnant, have heart disease, skin injuries, low blood pressure, or urinary tract infections (UTIs) should avoid hot tubs to stay cautious.
5. Saunas: According to Medical News Today, a sauna is a room in which people aim to relax in dry heat. Some benefits include easing pain, reducing levels of stress, and improving cardiovascular health. There are also potential risks for those with concerns so be sure to consult your doctor before using.
6. Body Scrubs: A body scrub is a popular spa treatment that is used to help exfoliate your skin. This treatment is similar to a facial, except performed on your body. There are many different types of body scrubs, but most typically contain abrasive ingredients such as sugar or sea salt and other natural ingredients. Benefits include removing dead skin cells and promoting cell turnover, making your skin feel softer and look more even and radiant, unclogging pores, freeing trapped ingrown hairs, and reducing the appearance of razor bumps, boosting circulation, relieving stress, and promoting relaxation.
A spa package for proposals
We want your proposal to be the most unique and special day that it can be; with our proposal packages, we are sure to make that happen, and especially on such a romantic and joyous holiday. If you would like to reserve one of these packages, we have eight different options to offer, with pricing starting at $1,495. Here are some ideas below for how to make the moment even more romantic, thoughtful and special:
Decorate your spa room: if you decide to keep the proposal private, we will decorate the room with rose petals, candles, and framed photos.
Fill your spa room with balloons: if your partner loves balloons, then this is a perfect option. Plus, if you want to feel that you are both going higher up in your relationship, then this will be the perfect symbol of your love. We can even attach photos to the bottom of the balloons to make the moment even more sentimental and thoughtful.
Incorporate a “Marry Me” display: adding this display will surely catch your partner’s attention. Not only will it make for a great backdrop for photos, but it will also be up to you on how you want the words to appear. Do you want large, sparkly letters? Or a handwritten note? Whatever you choose, we are confident that the display will be a winner.
After they say “yes” and you both enjoy the moment with kisses, photos and smiles, enjoy an 80-minute decadent couples massage, hot tub, champagne, chocolates, a spa gift, and 60 long stem roses. This experience will be sure to allow you and your significant other to start off your engagement strong and happy. If you would like to make your Valentine’s Day extra special by proposing, choose it with ZZ Day Spa.
Conclusion
Proposing at a spa is a unique idea that is sure to surprise your partner. Since proposing is not something you get to do everyday, make it the most special it can be. If you are planning to pop the question, consider choosing ZZ Day Spa to help make your experience magical.
